Crazy as this may sound, one of the best Valentine's Days I ever had was right after I broke up with a boyfriend. I was upset and unhappy. So, I spent some time thinking about what would make me happy and be fun. I came up with this list and let me tell you – it worked like a charm! 

If you are single, try some of these ideas yourself this year on Valentines Day and see if the holiday passes with greater ease, and even some joy!

By Flowers for Yourself and Your Girlfriends!
That's right – I bought my friends Jill and Michelle a big bunch of gorgeous flowers, and some for me too of course! They were totally thrilled and I was too when I saw the appreciative look on their faces.

Have Dinner with Friends
We went out to a nice restaurant and enjoyed the meal we'd like to have had with a partner. The meal was truly memorable with yummy seafood and decadent chocolate cake for dessert. We deserved the best regardless of our relationship status!

Toast Your Friends and Your Life
Yeah, we event went for the champagne.  We toasted the good things in our lives and each other. Then we made wishes for the following year and the next Valentine's Day.

Buy Cards for Friends and Neighbors
Do you know someone who is sick, single, older and/or alone? Is there someone who often helps you at work? Brighten their day and yours by remembering them on Valentine's Day. We gave Valentine's to everyone in our classes in grade school – return to this practice and watch the smiles!

Buy Treats for Your Pets
Sometimes there's nothing better than the unconditional love of a pet. Treat them well on Valentine's Day to enjoy the love they share with you all year round.

Celebrate with Your Children
Your kids can make your Valentine's Day very special. Make a big deal of the holiday for them. Cook a special meal, put chocolate hearts in their lunch boxes, or have a family game night. Whatever your family would like – do it up and share the love.

Smile All Day Long
There are plenty of singles who might feel down on Valentine's Day. You can brighten their day and yours at the same time with something as simple as a smile. When you catch a man's eye, smile back to acknowledge him. There's no promise of anything more – but this can make someone's day and yours too. Smile often enough and it may even become a habit! You can't lose when you flash those pearly whites.

It's Just One day
If none of these suggestions work for you, then keep this happy thought in mind. Valentine's Day is just one day, once a year. It will pass quickly and then you can go back to life as usual. On the other hand, try something new from the list above. I'm sure you'll be glad you did.